A Prayer to Give Up Our Need for Recognition
By: Tiffany Curtis
“He must become greater; I must become less.” – John 3:30
Being raised in the church and going to a Christian school growing up meant that there were some questions that I always had an answer ready for. One of these classic questions was, “What’s your favorite Bible verse?” to which I always responded, “John 3:30.” I remember the first time I read that verse and how I thought to myself, “That’s the one. That’s my favorite verse.” I remember liking the simplicity of it. Perhaps, as a child, it was just the easy memorization that drew me to it as well. It wasn’t until years and years down the road that I would truly come to understand the gravity of this simple verse.
For many of us, it’s safe to say that we enjoy receiving recognition for the things we do. We naturally desire to be recognized and praised for our accomplishments within our workplace, family, and friend groups. As a child, it was easy for me to look at this verse and think that allowing God to be greater than myself would be a simple task. But as we get older, it becomes easier and easier to justify praising ourselves for our skills and the good things in our lives rather than God.
For me, my top love language by far is words of affirmation. This, of course, isn’t a bad thing; however, it can become a bad thing if I allow my need for affirmation to outweigh my need to glorify God. He calls us to humble ourselves before him (James 4:10) because it is God who works through us.
John’s response is humbling. He dedicated his life to baptizing others, but as soon as Jesus dove into his ministry, John was immediately prepared to take a backseat. He made it clear to everyone around him that his gifts and abilities all came from heaven – not from himself. He could have easily tried to attribute this power and recognition to himself, but he gave all the glory to God, where it belonged.
Let us not forget to attribute our skills, our accomplishments, and our blessings to the One who has given it all to us.
Thank you for all the things that you give us. You are generous with your gifts and blessings on our lives. Even when we fail to realize it, you are the giver of every good thing we receive.
Help us to attribute all the praise, honor, and recognition to you rather than claiming it for ourselves. Just as John the Baptist did, let us make you greater and ourselves less so that all those around us can see that you are the one who deserves all the glory. Let our lives be a testimony to your greatness and show others that it is not I, but Christ through me (Galatians 2:20).
Forgive us when we take credit for the things that you give us and try to attribute the praise to ourselves. Help us to recognize this, even when we do it unintentionally. Give us the self-awareness to always look for your hand in all things. Let us not forget that every good and perfect gift is from above, coming from the Father (James 1:17).
You are a powerful, loving, and good Savior. Thank you for all the ways that you bless our lives, both in ways we can see and in the unseen. Thank you for accomplishing your good works through us. We love you, and we give you all the praise, glory, and honor.
In Jesus’ Name,